Flying with a Baby and Toddler: The Baby Travel Gear You Need

Flying with a Baby and Toddler: The Baby Travel Gear You Need

If given a choice between spending an afternoon at the DMV or engaging in that sweaty, full-contact sport known as baby travel, any sane parent would choose the former. That’s because flying with babies and toddlers is akin to U.S. Marine Corps boot camp, albeit more intense. It also requires the same amount of gear, some of which is essential and some of which is optional but makes life easier, from travel toys, pillows, and trays to airplane beds and baby headphones.

Traveling with kids will inevitably involve a few spills, meltdowns, and glares from strangers. These will likely be out of your control. But we also guarantee that with a few things on this list, you will experience fewer, they will be shorter, and you will have a much better experience.

Of course, there are a few basics: Arrive at the airport early, pack enough snacks to avoid any pre-boarding temper tantrums, and bring a select amount of toys to keep them occupied during the flight. Have kids chew on something during takeoff so their ears don’t pop, consider noise-canceling headphones if they rely on silence or white noise to fall asleep, and ditch any guilt about screen time. If all else fails, know that when traveling with kids, it really is about the destination, not the journey. So focus on the future, because we guarantee that no one enjoys the present during baby travel.

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The Best Baby Travel Gear

Grab and GO Formula to Food Container Set by Skip Hop

Any parent knows that leaving home without a supply of snacks is a rookie mistake. We like this stackable snack container, which can also hold formula, so your kid is never whining about an empty tummy. It includes one 10-ounce container, two 6-ounce containers, and one easy-pour lid.

Portable Travel Baby Bottle Warmer by Tommee Tippee

The bottle is encased in a thermal flask that's filled with boiling water; you stick your baby bottle in it to warm it up. It's basic but gets the job done, especially for shorter flights

Portable Clean Hands Changing Pad by SnoofyBee

Babies squirm and grab during diaper changes and when you're in a tiny, cramped airplane bathroom, that makes things pretty rough. This brilliant changing pad has sides that fold up and create a barrier to keep your baby occupied with toys, and the foldable pad packs down to a small clutch. Wipe it down to clean it.

Arm and Hammer Diaper Bag Dispenser by Munchkin

Changing a soiled diaper on a plane is a particularly humbling part of parenting.Deposit the dirty diaper in the bag, tie it up, and no one will be the wiser. The bags are lavender-scented, as a bonus.

Hanging Dopp Kit by State Bags

Store the aforementioned diapers, along with wipes, pacifiers, hand sanitizer, and every other baby item you need to quickly access in this hanging dopp kit, which can go to the plane bathroom with you.

First Bites Full Kit

A must for longer flights when bags of snacks won't cut it: These handsome silicone plates and cups suction on to the tray table, so kids can eat without making (too much of) a major mess. Plus, it'll keep them busy, because getting steamed baby carrots from plate to mouth is hard work.

The Complete Airflow SIX-Position 360° Ergonomic Baby Carrier by LÍLLÉbaby

The LÍLLÉbaby carrier gives you six options for carrying your baby, from birth onward. It has adjustable seat and leg openings that facilitate proper hip support, frog-leg seating, and curved C-spine position. The straps are adjustable, so parents of various body shapes and sizes can figure out what position suits them best and is most comfortable. And it has a headrest.

JetKids by Stokke BedBox

Kids can ride on this suitcase, sure. But it fits most economy seats on planes and folds out into a bed. The lid of the suitcase and the extension plate elongate the seat to create a larger surface area while the mattress and side panels create a comfortable space for kiddo to rest.

Car Seat Travel Bag by VolkGo

This lightweight bag has numerous carrying handles as well as two padded backpack straps for sherpa-ing it through the airport. It's made of puncture resistant, water-proof nylon and is designed to keep your car seat germ-free. A pair of drawstring closures and a velcro flap help secure car seats within it and it works with nearly every brand. Once the seat is out it folds into a small carrying pouch.


The Best Airplane Car Seats

You’re going to want to cuddle your baby in your arms. Just don’t. Because if your plane encounters turbulence, your kid can go flying. Thus, you need a car seat. Make sure it’s FAA-approved, and has a label that reads “This restraint is certified for use in motor vehicles and aircraft.”

KeyFit 30 Infant Car Seat by Chicco

All Chicco infant and convertible car seats FAA-approved for use on an airplane. This one is great because it's fairly lightweight, considering the safety features, and clocks in at 16 pounds. The weight limit is 4-30 pounds.

Pico Car Seat by WAYB

At just eight, yes eight, pounds, this is a pretty dope travel car seat that's also passed FAA muster. It has an aerospace-grade aluminum frame, breathable pads, can be installed with the plane's seatbelt, and when done, it turns into a backpack. It's only for older kids: 22 to 50 pounds.

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The Best Kids Travel Trays

Foldable Kids' Travel Tray by Ha&Da

Yes, planes are now cleaned regularly between flights. But they're still not what we'd call pristine. This basic travel tray goes over the tray table, and folds up when not in use. Thanks to its cleverly raised sides, crayons and markers won't wind up all over the floor.

Kids Travel Play Tray by Kenley Kids

Load up this travel tray with all your kid's favorite toys and crafts. While this is billed as being for car seats, we don't recommend it for that use, because it likely hasn't been crash-tested. However, it's great for flights, because it fits onto the tray, and it keeps your kid's stuff contained and within easy reach. No more whining about crayons falling behind seats, or toy cars going missing. It has an attachable storage compartment that can be removed or collapsed to reveal an extra large surface area, if needed, and folds up easily.


The Best Travel Toys

Discover Button Art Activity Set by ALEX

This is the perfect portable design studio for preschoolers. It comes with a nice, wide storage tray to keep all the supplies contained. Kids match and snap the chunky buttons to complete the pictures of a frog, bird, house, tree, truck, and other stuff they'll love and recognize.

Bath Toys with Suction by BunMo

Kids can spend hours building and rearranging these suction toys and sticking them to the seat in front of them. The carrying case makes transporting and cleaning them up even easier.

Vet Visit Carry Case by PLAYMOBIL

Kids four and up can set up a vet clinic on the go, and when they're done, everything packs up nicely in its own carry case. You can choose a pirate playset, or a knight playset. Each one comes with figures and accessories, so kids can play on the plane and pack everything up before landing.

Town Maze Magnetic Game by HABA

What we love about this magnetic maze toy: It's quiet, it's engaging, and there are no little tiny pieces that will fall off and go missing, thereby rendering the toy last year's news. It keeps them quietly entertained in airplanes and works hand-eye coordination and fine motor skills, too. It's a win-win.

Suction Baby Toy Teether Grapple

Babies love throwing toys on the ground and having you pick them up. Beat them at their own game with this ingenious creation, which suctions on to the tot's tray and keeps their toys in place.

Take-Along Shape-Sorter Baby and Toddler Toy by Melissa & Doug

Naturally, one of our go-to brands does it again. This time, with a portable sorter set that's going to keep your kiddo happy and entertained. Created for kids nine months and older, Melissa & Doug's sorter set comes in a padded case with two activity sides, and nine textured blocks in various colors and shapes.

Water Coloring & Painting Book by Melissa & Doug

Hours of fun! You fill the water pen, kids paint with the giant brush, and each stroke reveals part of the hidden image. When the page dries, the picture disappears and they can start again.

Free Draw Tablet by Magnatab

Kids learn about gravity and magnets when they draw on this endlessly reusable magnetic tablets. It'll keep them busy for hours with zero mess.

On The Go Make-a-Face Reusable Sticker Pad by Melissa & Doug

This sticker pad set makes for no-mess arts and crafts that are easily transportable. Kids can spend hours choosing eyes, noses, and mouths for all different animal templates, making them as silly or realistic as they please.

PuroQuiet Kids Volume-Limiting Noise-Cancelling On-Ear Wireless Headphones by Puro Sound Labs

Not a toy but just as essential: These volume-limiting noise-cancelling headphones for kids give you up to 22 hours of playtime and 200 hours of standby on a single charge. They protect eardrums with an 85 decibel limit. They're foldable, lightweight, and make daily noise and background sounds up to 22 decibels quieter. The bluetooth feature lets them connect to almost any device, while the optional cable plugs into airplane TVs and lets kids listen when the headphones need to be charged.

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